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Self Esteem

Self Esteem – Secret to Boost your Personality

Self esteem is the building block of a confident and dynamic personality. One of the major reasons of failing in achieving goals is lack of self esteem. It can be clearly defined as the confidence and self conceit in oneself. Higher level of self esteem in a person helps him in achieving goals efficiently, living a happy life with a positive attitude and he/she always carries a confident personality as compared to others.

Self respect comes into picture and supports self esteem to a greater extent. The way a person shapes up his image play an important role here; the way you draw your ‘self image’. Drawing a self image means the way you see yourself.

To achieve something bigger in life one need to have a high self esteem and self respect about oneself. What others think about you is secondary. The only thing that matters is what you think about yourself and where do you see yourself. To become successful in life and to live life a king one need to think like a king first. Understand the difference between confidence and over-confidence. Confidence is something that can build you; on the other hand over-confidence can become the major cause of your downfall. One needs to understand that delicate boundary which separates both the attributes.

Self Esteem

Self esteem can be improved by loving yourself, respecting yourself; analyzing yourself on certain parameters.

Here are few ‘Self esteem check’ parameters

Few basic questions you need to ask yourself today itself

Am I satisfied with my job?

Am I happy with my present?

Am I working on improving myself?

Am I learning something new?

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Analyze yourself to know your real worth

I am good at…………………………..

I am a good……………………………..

People love me because I am………

I have to improve my…………………

I can do ………………… better.

I can become a good…………………

My USP…………………………………..

I am proud of……………………………

My parents are proud of me because………………….

My friends love my company because…………………

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Daily questions you need to ask yourself

Today I have to ……………

Best thing I can do today is…………..

Person who can make my day is……………..

I should visit…………..

Basic answers you need to know are

I enjoy the most…………………

I like the most……………………

I admire the most……………..

I am looking forward to……….

I am an expert at……………..

I can achieve success in…….

My greatest accomplishments so far……………….

These questions are just an example of an activity on how to analyze your ‘self image’ to know your worth and this can actually help in enhancing your ‘Self Esteem’. Focus on your positive attributes and do not waste on competing with others. “You” yourself are your only competitor. Know yourself rather than trying to know others. People will keep on criticizing and will keep on pulling you backwards. It depends upon you that whether to give up or keep fighting. Be optimistic towards life and one day you will surely succeed in achieving your goals.

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Prateek Uniyal is a Computer Science Engineer, MBA in Marketing and International Business and an independent business owner at Prateek & Co. Passionate for entrepreneurship and fitness.